Let potential partners know you’re available and looking. Let’s discuss the expectations with making yourself available for dating.
So you want to be available and get started on dating. For us men in our 50s, dating is a confusing game (as it always is), so consider this article as starting guide to start meeting and interacting with potential partners. Build that confidence and have a good chance to land in a loving relationship. You can do this.
In some ways, we can consider ourselves as lucky. The society is more open on dating nowadays when compared before. Also, the rules of dating has become less rigid. Still, understand that dating still boils down to making three things clear: attention, communication, and expectations.
Is There a Formula to Become More Successful in Dating?
You might knew a guy who appear successful in dating, meeting young, gorgeous women and having different dates successively. We cannot say instantly, “That could be you.” Like many other things in life like applying for a job or gambling, dating is both numbers and a game of chance.
More numbers increases the odds and chance where you might meet success, or not. So what you should focus in answering these questions:
- How to meet more women?
- How to make women notice me?
- How to engage in the ‘actual’ dating?
- What women looks for in men?
Give Attention to Yourself First
Before you focus on the women, you need to take a good look at the mirror first and talk to yourself. Your appearance and being approachable matters a lot. Have you ever pondered why we notice the appearance or the attractiveness rating of women when meeting them the first time? Face value matters a lot, and women also rates men’s desirability based on their appearance. That means you have to step up to improve your physical attractiveness as well.
Get started to be desirable to women. That could mean a lot of work, such as losing weight, updating your wardrobe, getting started on skin care, or building more muscle. Be the item that catches their eye the way a shiny toy or magazine stands out in a toy store. If you want a woman’s attention, you have to work on yourself to be handsome in their eyes!
It is a lot effort to build yourself from the ground up. But we promise, women will often notice it! We have a lot of reading here at Silver Athletes to help you do just that. Learn to do basic skincare by reading this article and look younger than you really are.
The Only Way to Meet More Women
Be properly groomed, dressed, and desirable. Doing that builds your self-confidence. Once you got that figured out is the moment you are ready to venture out actually meeting women .
If you want better success, you got to expand your network online and in real life. Its not just when looking for jobs; networking is the opportunity to meet more people and interact with them. Nowadays, having a presence in social media and online dating profiles is a must-have. Set them up and make them look good, as potential dates tend to look them up soon after meeting you. Make your internet footprint clear and clean.
You want more opportunities to meet and interact with women in real life, but how are you going to do that? That is only going to happen if you socialise. Well, you can start by getting engaged in your workplace or community. Try being a volunteer at a library, a church, or in an organisation. Or, you can join a club or a non-profit group. You can also try establishing a nightlife and spending time on pubs, cafes and bars. Think of it as something fun and exciting, since you want potential partners to feel the same way.
Your Expectations Should be Clear
Remember that when meeting women, you are trying to leave a good impression and a chance of a friendly relationship – and have a more intimate one hopefully over time. So don’t assume right away that you will make every woman you meet will fall head over heels on you — unless you want +to be labelled as a creep.
There can be awkwardness when you initially meet with women and that’s okay, so learn from it and improve yourself over time. Search for a common ground and be a good listener, making them talk about themselves and make the topic about them rather than talking about you.
Harangues and monologues are reasons why some guys meet a lot of women without landing any dates. You don’t want to sound annoying.
Satisfy things women are looking for in men, which is often the same regardless of the age group. Build yourself to look desirable and presentable at first so you will have better chances when you meet women. That’s what we’re saying.
We did not mention anything about the actual dating, which we will discuss in another article. There is no set formula to be more successful in dating. The only thing you can do is improve your chances.